This was a poignant moment that reminded me of Spock and Kirk in Wrath of Khan. Spock argued the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one. Natasha’s sacrifice was all the more nobler because she wasn’t just trying to save her friend Clint, she was saving a husband and father, a whole family.

both deaths would have been bad to me

They both had families it broke me for nat to die but it wouldn’t have hurt any less if it was clint I love them both and thought it was a good send off for Natasha like Scarlett said if you love something you need to set it free