I've been cheated on, and later found out that 2 of my friends knew about it. I was extremely hurt by the fact that they didn't tell me. I would rather a friend be upset with me for telling them about it, instead of feeling betrayed because I knew, and didn't tell.

A VERY CLOSE FRIEND.. DROPPING A DIME. NO PROBLEM

Because I would want someone to tell me if my husband was cheating

I would want a friend to tell me, if they knew for fact, that my husband was cheating. A friend looks out for a friend and a foundation for friendship is being honest, no matter how how harsh the truth is.

Yes, if I KNEW it, not just guessed. I'd probably talk to the cheater first and make sure I saw what I thot I saw.

If you don't, then how can you possibly call yourself a FRIEND?

If the person being cheated on was a family member or close friend, I'd tell them. Not sure if they'd be glad or pissed at me, but I'd have to let them know.

I was cheated on and it would have been good to know, rather than to be totally stunned.

Yes. I'd want to know, and I'd hope a friend would tell me.

I found out I was being cheated on. I immediately went for an HIV test which came back negative. A friend, same situation, came back positive. Yes, I would tell! Lives are at stake.

All depending on how close of a friend.

I can't keep a secret

I would, even if i lost that friend, because i would want to know if it was happening to me.

I'd want to know if the situation was reversed. I'd feel hurt & betrayed if it was me getting cheated on & no one told me and I couldn't do that to my friend. Its just wrong in every way.

Noone deserves to be putting their all into a relationship,while their so is cheating. I would want someone to tell me if I was getting cheated on.

They need to know. I would absolutely tell!

I have done this. I would want to be told. My friend was glad i'd told her.

Ignorance is not bliss

Even if the friend would rather not know (an "ignorance is bliss" approach), the cheating spouse might give the friend an STD or, these days, Covid-19. I'm not really a friend if I say nothing.

Not sure how I'd approach it but yes

I would hope someone would do the same for me! Given that I 100% knew they were having an affair. I would be humiliated to find out others knew I was being so disrespected like that and didn't tell me

Because I would expect my friends to tell me.

If it was me, I would want to know.

I would want to know.

i would first approach the cheater and say, "You tell her or I will." And then back it up.

I would want to know, so I would give the same courtesy to my friend.

Because I'm a loyal friend

I would tell the cheater first to make sure it was true.

I feel that everyone should know the truth. Then let them decide what they want to do with the information. They may already know or at least suspect something.